Frequently asked questions
We pride ourselves on our adaptability and commitment to excellence in every aspect of our service. Explore what we have to offer and how we can contribute to your success. Our approach is rooted in quality and integrity, ensuring that everything we do reflects our commitment to excellence at Essence Of Love. We believe love knows no limits, labels, or boundaries, and your unique love story deserves to be honoured with authenticity and grace.
Can a celebrant legally marry us?
In the UK, I’m not able to carry out the legal marriage itself (yet, the law is change but not sure when) but don’t worry, it’s very straightforward. You’ll just pop to your local registry office to take care of the legal paperwork (either before or after your ceremony, whatever suits you).
Then comes the beautiful part your ceremony with me. This is where the real magic happens: your vows, your rings, your story, and all the love and meaning you want to bring into the moment.
Is a celebrant more expensive than a registrar?
Not always and it really depends on how you choose to celebrate.
Many licensed wedding venues charge higher fees, so if you opt for somewhere meaningful but unlicensed (like a garden, woodland, or beach), you could actually save on venue costs.
My fee is typically higher than a registrars, but that’s because I invest time in you. We’ll spend months getting to know each other, and I’ll create a completely bespoke ceremony that reflects your journey, your personalities, and your love. It’s personal, not templated—and that makes all the difference.
Can we include religious, cultural, or symbolic elements?
Absolutely! We embrace all traditions, beliefs, and symbolic rituals. Whether it’s a handfasting, a sand ceremony, lighting unity candles, or incorporating elements from your cultural heritage, we will weave these seamlessly into your ceremony to make it truly yours.
Are there any couples you wouldn’t work with?
I’m here to celebrate love in all its forms.
The only values I don’t align with are those rooted in hate or discrimination—such as homophobia, racism, or misogyny. My ceremonies are inclusive, welcoming, and built on respect, joy, and connection.
Where can our ceremony take place?
Anywhere that feels right to you.
A beach, a forest, your back garden, a cosy living room, or somewhere completely unique—your ceremony can happen wherever your heart leads you.
I’m happy to travel across the UK and beyond (travel costs may apply), and I’ll also help you think through practical bits—like having a backup plan if the British weather decides to make an appearance!
When can our ceremony happen?
Whenever you like!
Morning, midday, sunset, or even under the stars at midnight—your ceremony can take place at any time, on any day of the year. It’s all about what feels most magical to you.
Can our pet be part of the ceremony?
I would love that!
If your venue allows it, your furry family members are more than welcome. I’m even happy to come prepared with a few treats to help guide an enthusiastic ring bearer down the aisle. Pets are family, after all.
What about our vows?
Your vows can be whatever you want them to be.
You might choose to write your own, funny, romantic, heartfelt or keep things more traditional. I’ll support you every step of the way, with as much guidance (or as little) as you need.
If speaking in front of people feels daunting, we can practice together and even run a rehearsal, so you feel completely at ease.
Can we include music, readings, or poems?
Of course—and I always encourage it.
These moments are a lovely way to involve the people you love and make your ceremony even more personal. You can include as many readings, poems, or musical elements as you like.
You’ll just need to arrange any equipment or musicians, and I’ll help make sure everything flows beautifully.
What will you wear?
I’ll always dress to complement your day.
I’ll usually check in about your colour scheme and overall style, so I blend in seamlessly (and don’t accidentally match the wedding party!).
Whether your wedding is classic and elegant or relaxed and festival-inspired, I’m happy to reflect that—and I’ll always run my outfit past you first if you’d like.
How long will the ceremony last?
The length of your ceremony is entirely up to you and the elements you choose to include. Most ceremonies last between 20 and 45 minutes.
It really depends on what you include—readings, rituals, music, and personal touches all shape the flow. Together, we’ll create something that feels just right for you.
Ready to create your perfect ceremony?
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